But the only thing that’s telling you is that you’ve given your heart to the wrong person, because in a situation where it is reciprocated, both people will be willing to give to the other.
For this reason, selfish people can never love another, because they will be less willing to compromise.
After all, you can give your lover more happiness only when you’re full of happiness yourself.
Being selfless in a relationship is a sign of unconditional love, but being too selfless can make even the nicest people take your niceness for granted! ] How can you tell if you’re being selfish in the relationship? If you’re too self centered and believe your needs are more important than everyone else’s needs, you’re probably a selfish person even if you don’t think so.
“He’s a man because of his age; a child because of his acts.
We talked to Greer about why it's critical that we quit keeping score and start finding ways to compromise.There are many perceptions of what “true love” looks like in today’s society.People attempt to quantify it or put characteristics or actions or labels on it – but it is a difficult thing to define since every situation is unique.But that mind-set can cause one-for-me-one-for-you accounting, which ultimately breeds resentment."The 'I'll see your stress, and raise it' game is a no-win one," says psychologist Jane Greer, author of (Sourcebooks).