Almost everywhere else in China, however, traditional attitudes to dating prevail. In traditional Chinese culture, boys and girls are introduced to each other in a group social setting.A girl would only agree to go out on a date with a boy if she were willing to consider marriage.When dating Chinese women there are some kinds of Chinese dating etiquette you should probably be aware of and follow.You don't want to make one embarrassing mistake that will make her think twice about dating you again.With regard to introducing yourself there is little difference between China and elsewhere.It is considered polite to give your full name, job positions and the place you work for, especially on more formal occasions.Politeness is important in every culture, and this is even more the case in Chinese culture.Now, this one is actually harder to quantify than you might at first imagine.
So let's take a look at when using Chinese Dating Rules that'll help make her attracted to you and also feel you are the kind of guy that can fit her: 1. Whereas in western culture we will steer clear of making any reference to good-looks when we first meet someone of the opposite sex, within Chinese culture this is perfectly normal. A western female you first meet may role her eyes and then make sure to avoid us after we comment on her beauty, but a Chinese woman won't.In feudal society, a marriage would be decided not by a young couple's love, but by their parents' desires.Only after a matchmaker's introduction and when parents considered the two family conditions were similar and could be matched, would the marriage procedures go forward.Expectations about gender roles are much more conservative in traditional Chinese culture than in American culture.If an American boy goes out to dinner with a Chinese girl and does not pay for her meal, the locals will view him he as having lost "face" or social status and they will regard him as a poor dating candidate.